When the newness, sparks and magic fade, many of us become lazy in our relationship habits. We trade shaved legs for sweats, sweet gestures for expectations, cuddles in bed for time scrolling through our phones. We become lazy in our interactions, reactive to the negative, avoid giving the benefit of the doubt and complacently overlook the positives in our relationships.

We like to think that “meant to be” is the type of love that doesn’t need work, that you’re either soulmates or you’re not. But love is not unconditional. It takes commitment, intention, ongoing pursuit of growth and evolving. If you’re wondering how to rekindle a relationship, you’re ready for the truth: 

One or both of you have stopped putting in the work necessary to keep your love alive.


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Crazy in love to

lazy in love.